In a real life story of Juliet’s Isreal, In the next few days, after she want what’s app me just to discussed her personal life issues with me (Victory) and she quote “ Reconciling with her past – Letting go and healing from traumatic experiences”

Heads up🙌: Her status may turn to waist bead status but be sure to fellow through as I ( Victory ) will surely inspired you a lot from it and also experience light heartedness and mental easiness.

God will definitely show up for you within the next three (3) days, so please, do not miss any of these inspirational story. She decided to hold a class based on the number of messages she get from several people dealing with backlog of negative experiences and I’m here to tell you that, YOU CAN BE FREE.
From all of those traumatic experiences and live A NEW LIFE.

If you know her, she knows I like to share her story, so I’ll start there. For old contacts, I know you may have heard her story countless number of times, please bear with me… It’s for the sake of her new contacts and to let them feel that healing is possible.

For the most part of her life, she had lived in self hate and constant self sabotaging.

You wouldn’t blame her, it was from the backlog of several negative experiences she had when growing up. She hated herself, she believed no one loved her and even on her birthday, she cried herself to sleep most times because she felt like a Fraud, “Why do I have to live to see another year? “ She do ask herself. She wanted death. She contemplated death, she wished and prayed for death. She attempted suicide and thank God for the story of heaven and hell, she would have been a forgotten story by now. She was depressed for two (2) years and seeking validation from anyone and everyone.

She looked at the reflection she saw in the mirror and called herself “stupid, ugly, good for nothing girl’’ and all sorts of cruel names.

Hmmm! She guess it all started when she was raped at a young age of 14/15 thereabout.

She was a good church girl who loved the Lord so how could that have happened to her. She felt ashamed and blamed herself for so long that it took her years until she finally opened up about the issues to someone else. It was a really painful experience and while she accepted her fate, she wanted to feel good enough for someone.

She got into her first relationship and gosh, she was really trying to be the good girl, she needed validation ( that she was loved and accepted ).

She had just gotten admission into the University Of Education-Winneba (Ghana) then, so that's the only way of interacting and the only means of communication was phone calls and mostly midnight calls. She do stay up all night trying to call her boyfriend who wouldn’t pick even though, he had agreed to talk to her that night.

She can remember begging him to give her just one (1) day out of the seven (7) days in a week so they could talk but each times, her guy would always miss her call and she do stay up from 12 till about 2 or 3 hoping he would wake up and they would talk. The few times he picks he do complain of a low battery and hung up almost immediately. He wasn’t at fault.

"She simply needed validation to feel loved".

One day, when she called babe (boyfriend) he sounded really down and she asked him what was wrong, he told her, he wasn’t feeling well. She asked him why? He hasn’t gone to the hospital and he said, he didn’t have money for that hospital bills. Gracefully, her dad had just sent her, allowance for the month and she didn’t hesitate to send it to him Babes. She didn’t get a call back from him and she wanted to find out if he got it and by so called……………

He picked and replied harshly that she should drop the call, cause he needed resense to his battery for his Mom’s call to enter. When she asked him if he got it, he replied, “Ehn Yes….” That was on a weekend.

On Monday, she saw pictures of him and a lady on Facebook FB with the caption, “143”……after she quickly google what that means, her heart dropped. And well, she drank garri and kulikuli the rest of the month. It would have made sense if she was drinking it in love but kpao, the garri was slapping her mouth. Anyway, she moved on from there but it only added to her scars and she had still not gotten the memo. She jumped into her next relationship during NSS and she was certain it was ( still am ) Fante but love does not select tribes in it.

So she started watching videos online on how to prepare their native soup for the new guy. She wanted to be the best wife she can be as they had already discussed marriage and she had even told her Mom, she wasn’t coming home after NSS, if she do, it’s to come and do her wedding and she will zoom off to her husband’s house. Fairytales!

One day, he told her that, he needed to travel home to go see his parents and talk to them about her. ( They were in Takoradi town then – she served there ).

Said when he returned, he do then take her to meet them. He gave her his house keys before he left and she was feeling like “aseda” while at his place when he left, a friend called, sounding concerned to ask if she is fine, surprised, she teased her that she was alright and she should be getting ready to do "Ashoebi" for her. Still tensed, she asked her to come online, she did. And she sent her a picture of her supposed babe (BF), at his traditional marriage.

Apparently, her guy went for his traditional marriage but told her, he was going to talk to his people about her. At this point, she would have picked up the Mantra, “men are wetin?” but she got coconut head at his moment anyway, she don’t know how she left his house that day but she did as she cried until water finished in her body. She confronted him and he said his parents wouldn't let him marry an Ewe Girl so they arranged his marriage upon his arrival at home.

             Now what happened next?

She picked the pieces of her shattered self and moved on……………

At this point, she was a total mess mentally and emotionally and believing in herself was not feasible in anyway. So you can imagine how she felt when it seemed like she finally found someone who believed in her dreams. Hmmm! Light shine upon those who look on him…..we moved.

She met another new guy and he seem really nice, he seemed to validate her so much and wanted the best for her. It didn’t take long for her to realize that she loved him and it felt good to know that he was in the same pace as her.

He loved her too! or so I thought.

It was a long distance relationship but it wasn’t a problem as he always made sure to reach out to her daily. They were cool until he came to see her. They were together when he requested to use her laptop as he didn’t come with his.

Oh! This was in 2019 and she was new in the Cryptocurrency world, she had her first crypto then, BTC and ETH and the new Babe knew where she stored her private keys……….

So yeah, he borrowed her laptop to something on it and had to go outside because he couldn’t concentrate on work while she was there ( as per the beaury that she was upon everything ). Well he went outside and came back some mins later and said he will be back soon. She wanted to do a few things online and saw that the last tab open was the history tab…..and he had cleared his history.

Unbothered but curious, she wondered why he did do that….then she went to her mail to check something and his mail popped open as she typed in gmail address. The fist mail she saw in his mailbox jolted her, it was a mail from “Juliet Israel.” She knew, she had not sent him any mail to him…….

Opened to see what she had sent…..it was a mail containing her 12 key phrase forewarded from her mail to his, another pain killer, she was surprised so she confronted him when he returned and he claimed he was only helping her save it, just in case something happened and she didn’t have the key phrase anymore.

That was supposed to be like a surprise for her, yen, yen, yen and you.

Although he apologised but that evening, she decided to…….. Log into her Exodus wallet and she couldn’t login anymore. She alerted Babe and he seemed concerned, they were eventually abel to login with her keyphrase and to her greatest shock, her account had been wiped off.

She had 3 ETH and 81400 worth of BTC but as she opened her wallet, $0 stared blankly at her.

It was devastating and she accused him of stealing her money. He got really mad at her for accusing him of hurting. Then he was like, “ Don’t worry, we would get to the root of the matter. They would invite the police if they have to, and after they find out the culprit, He’s done with this relationship. “ He can’t be dating a girl who doesn’t trust him.

She was hurt but she couldn’t lose 2 things on the same day. So she apologized and begged him not call the relationship quits. Have you ever been in a situation where she felt cheated or hurt but still compelled to tender on apology?

He told her there could have been a virus in her system that enabled hackers to hack into it and steal her money. He took it upon himself to write back and forth mails to support to try and find out where her money went.

Two ( 2 ) weeks later, she still hadn’t gotten her money and he had returned to his base location. One afternoon, she decided to log into her email but then she saw he wasn’t logged out….so….

So she logged into his mail and something just nudget her to keep scrolling down and she did. Then she saw a mail from Blockchain Wallet of a deposit alert of 3 ETH on that day she lost hers.

She scrolled down again and saw another alert of the amount of BTC she had lost – both on the same day. But , the receiving address was not mine. She quickly went to Ethersan to do some digging and she found out…..

Her wallet had sent that money to a wallet, which sent it to another wallet before eventually sending it to him. She was shock. E choke her goan, she didn’t know if she still know how to breath.

This was someone who claimed to be her…..how could she have done that to him. She was broken. She confronted him and she apologized and even after they broke up, she wished she was dead.

The thought of him sent “ angry blood” through her vains and she hated herself for being stupid and all of these experiences kept compounding and validating to her that she was indeed, stupid.

To sum up, It was not until 2020 during the pandemic that she discovered light and was able to let of all the heavy duty bagged of self hate and negative mindset SHE HEALED.